51: breakfast busker, no interesting pictures, my own soap, a break from the excitement, talking mailboxes, see you soon - My Midlife Crisis - CycleBlaze

May 7, 2025

51: breakfast busker, no interesting pictures, my own soap, a break from the excitement, talking mailboxes, see you soon

Amelia Courthouse to Midlothian

After loading up the bike I pedaled across the street to the Food Lion to buy breakfast, then sat outside and leaned against one of the closed businesses in the strip mall to eat.

As I was sitting there eating my banana and yogurt I heard some music drifting across the parking lot. The acoustics were such that I couldn't tell where it was coming from and, listening to the sound of a violin emanating from nowhere and everywhere, I felt an overpowering sensation:  I wanted to cry.   You should know that I'm not a person who cries, ever, but the emotion was overwhelming. I couldn't even say what I was feeling.... Joy? Sadness? I  don't know.

I had to find out where it was coming from so, like a bloodhound tracking a scent, I stood up and followed it to the source. What I found was a busker on an island in the middle of this small strip mall and I rolled my bike over to investigate.

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The busker, Emanuel, was between songs when I arrived and after the initial introductions he began telling me his story. Our conversation was in stops and starts because of his broken English, but I learned that he was raised in Romania by a Romanian father and German mother, and has worked in construction for most of his life. He showed me some pictures of the work he’s done, scattered in cities off over the country, all of which looked very nice (of course, who’s going to show their mistakes?). 

Emanuel is in the middle of this strip mall in a town of 1,200 people playing music because, with the new administration’s policies, he can no longer find work without a green card. Finances are to the point where he’s concerned about not being able to support his family (here he showed me pictures of his wife and two children). Unable to go back to Romania, he’s trying to garner enough money to make it to Berlin. I asked about whether he could apply for German citizenship, but he because said his mother is German he can’t - his father has to be German. [I looked this up later and it was true, but the law recently changed]

He asked if I believed in Jesus, letting me know he still has faith in God despite his current situation, and shortly afterwards asked whether I was afraid being on the road. When I told him no, and that I’ve found everyone to be very kind, he warned, "Be careful of the Blacks and the Mexicans. They will rob you.” 

I gave him some money when I got there, but the conversation regularly returned to a request for more money. It’s possible there’s no family and no work history, and that he was simply trying to hustle me. Honestly, I didn’t care. I just wanted him to play the violin again.

And he did.

At first, I could tell that he was going through the motions, rotely fingering the strings for a song he’d played more than a hundred times before but, at one point, for about fifteen seconds, he went somewhere else… to that place that only music can take us. Then he came back and realized I was standing there and gave me a small smile.

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Although I could’ve sat there for a couple of hours listening to him play, I gave him a little more money and left. He asked God to bless me, and I rode off into a blessed headwind.

There are very few pictures today because I was navigating my way through suburbia, with a lot of turns and not much to photograph.

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Once I arrived at the hotel I took a shower, then walked across the parking lot to the mall and ate dinner....   exciting, edge-of-your-seat events.

It appears the French word for "shampoo" is "shampooing."
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And the French word for "conditioner" is "revitalisant."
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But I think I'll use my own bar of soap.
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This will be my last posting for about three weeks. I'm still really enjoying the trip, but will be taking a vacation from my vacation. Heather, who is still working, has some scheduled time off and after I reintroduce myself we'll be doing some traveling together. I'm sure I'll get out of shape really fast, and when I return the first week of June I'm going to have to start my conditioning all over again.

I think it's a good idea for you to take a break as well. I mean, who knew that you’d be seeing such exciting locations as the retirement city of Sandy Koufax, and the home of a relative of P. T. Barnum? Info about me walking to the mall? It makes your head swim, and too much of the likes of that could cause palpitations. Catch your breath and we'll crank this show up again before too long.

My timing is impeccable. Looks like rain all next week.
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I'll leave you with one last observation from the trip, an organized collection of mailbox pictures. Having passed thousands of mailboxes since I left Key West I've noticed different ways in which people protect them, and how I suspect they reflect the owners' personalities. 

Thus, Mark's Varying Approaches to Mailbox Awareness:

This is what you want to avoid.
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In avoiding the destruction of a mailbox I've found that there are three categories:

Category One:  Reflectors.

"Oh! Hi there! I saw you passing and was just wanting to let you know that I'm here, and have put up a reflector to make it easier for you to see. You be safe out there!"
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Category Two:

Make. My. Day.
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Within those two groups I've noticed variations as well. First, within the Reflector group:

same picture as above, which has a single reflector: "Hi guys! It's me again!"
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"Hey! Listen up! I slapped all these reflectors on me so there's NO WAY you should hit me."
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"I just dressed myself up with FOUR reflectors AND a triangle! You'd have to be drunk and blind to hit me!"
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                                                                        .

And within the Make My Day group:

"I put a reflector on and you STILL bumped into me. [palms up gesture] Jeez, sorry, man, but I got no choice now but to beat the shit outta ya."
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"Me an' a couple of my buddies got together. Yeah, let's see what you got, punk."
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"I'm tough! Really! I am! I can take on anybody, cuz I'm real stone, NOT plastic!!!"
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The third category is Other, and includes mailboxes that don't fit into either of the above categories.

Safety in numbers
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Safety in even more numbers
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SPROING!!!!!! "Hit me again! That was FUN!"
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"I'm a Christmas tree!! What kind of monster would run into a Christmas tree?!?!?!"
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"God will punish you if you hit me. Plus, I'll make sure you feel really guilty."
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"You're in for a real shock if you try damaging me."
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"I'm a mailbox, but a very important mailbox, and have hired my own security firm.... so before you come any closer you should consider whether you want to spend the next few years in jail."
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If you're looking for something to read while I'm gone, there are a lot of great journals on CycleBlaze, and from people who are better writers than me, traveling all over the world. Check some of them out:  CycleBlaze Journals

If you want to read any of my other journals, I suggest starting with my very first trip. It's a very short read: 
A Bike Tour Lasting Thirty Seconds
Or, perhaps the first lengthy tour, back when I was
Younger and Dumber

See you when I get back!

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Today's ride: 29 miles (47 km)
Total: 1,394 miles (2,243 km)

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Nancy GrahamEnjoy your vacation from your vacation. that will surely make you fresh for sharing more of your entertaining stories. thanks for those Mark, I do like following along with you on your journey.
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Mark BinghamTo Nancy GrahamThanks, Nancy!
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Karen PoretYour fun has just begun! Now it’s my turn to post a trip! 🤪
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Jo HaileyThis vicarious journey has been such fun! Enjoy your break. I’ll be looking forward to more adventures when you return. Safe travels always.
Jo from Flannery O’Connor’s Childhood Home
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Mark BinghamTo Karen PoretLooking forward to reading about your trip!!
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Karen PoretTo Mark BinghamI seem to have hit a “ snag”.. reported an entry but now I can’t find it! Beginners error?? Stay tuned! 🫣
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Karen PoretTo Mark BinghamSunday.. still no journal! Maybe it isn’t meant to be? I sent an email 📧 to CB for assistance. Any pointers you can give me to locate it? Fortunately I finished my first day on 🚲 today, so it should be easy enough to get “back on track”.. 🤔
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